Caesarean

I have mentioned it here before....

my second child died three days after she was born
she would have been 30yrs old on June 20th of this year.

and the reason why my two surviving kids are almost 7years apart.

oh...i didn't know that you lost one of your child... sorry to hear... that painful... i lost one brother too, he was b4 me... so if he had lived,... it would've been my sister, a brother another brother and a third brother and then me...


if you had your first child  c section...then you have to get all the other ones the same way ...? right?

all c-section after first one?.......not necessarily

with my 2nd they were giving me a chance to go for natural......but due to the obvious complications.....they had to rush me into emergency c-section again 

by the time you are on #3.....not given a choice....it is a must c-section.

Artie.....losing a child, no other pain compares.

after that....anything else hurtful that anyone says or does to you......well its like 'water on duck back' (this is how it affects me personally anyway)

ohh... that's crazy...  why do we have to go thru all this crap... and sumtimes when kids grow up, they can be so ungratetful.  :shocked:

people suffer internally but we often take it for granted and push people over the edge...not unless we can  personally experience what hte other person is feeling then we will understand... ... i have nephews and niece and i treat them well... im not thinking of getting any kids right now...

thats bulls*** that they had no pain - i HIGHLY doubt it.  My mom had me naturally in Guyana and was in plenty or pain with me muchless if she had a C section.  Back home ppl do not talk about their pain and they have no choice but to get up and get moving regardless of the pain and look after their children when ppl right here in this country cry out for a small cold and is bed ridden for a week.

When you have a Csection you cut the belly deep to pull out the baby - that cut has to heal from the inside out and it is very painful - dont tell me your niece didnt have pain.  Every woman i know had a Csection in NA, has experienced alot of pain.

VB is correct in her analysis and the reason they kick you out of the hospital so soon these days is because they dont have room nor the funds to keep you any longer - they ship you home to complete your suffering    blame the government. 

God intended for woman to deliver a baby through her coochie and c section is the last ditch hope.

I was told by a classmate in standard 3 that I fell from a coconut tree.

women are usually awake for the procedure as the doctors dont use general anasthesia...they just numb the bottom half of the woman...so she would be awake.  then when the anathestic wears off - i man sorry for that lady.